Un-convenient Biblical truths church folk don’t like to talk about anymore.

Un-convenient Biblical truths church folk don’t like to talk about anymore.

One of my favorite movies is “It’s a Wonderful Life,” a film about an angel Clarence Odbody, and a man George Bailey who wants to kill himself.  But Clarence is sent from Heaven to save George’s life. Clarence wants to get his wings and saving George from self-destruction is a way he can get his wings.  In the 1946 film, Clarence ends up helping George see the positives in his life and the town comes together to help George out of his financial troubles. (sorry if that’s a spoiler.)  At the end of the movie, George’s daughter hears a bell ring and says, “Every time a bell rings an angel gets his wings.”   Well, I’m not an angel expert, can’t say I’ve ever seen one, but angels doing good works to get their wings isn’t found in Biblical scripture.  (An angel doing bad things is however)  But the idea of Clarence and George, well it’s a heartwarming way to end that movie.

People did talk to angels in the Bible though.  And there are many stories about encounters with angels today.  Does it still happen?  You and I can ask God when we see Him.

Just like the story of Clarence,  my euphemism ‘un-convenient’, some  “Christian” things we read or hear just don’t sound right.  But what sounds right? Or do they sound right?  How do we find out what is right?  The truth, or what sounds right, can only be found through reading the source of truth for ourselves.  And, no, the word ‘Un-convenient‘ isn’t correct English.  I looked it up. It doesn’t sound right.

Why Should we know Scripture for ourselves?

I was watching a Youtube of a minister preach.  And he kept quoting Jesus.   And several times he quoted Jesus, something just didn’t sound right.  He said he was quoting Jesus, but he really wasn’t.  What he was saying sounded good and inspired hope, but had no foundation in scripture.  He was actually adding words to scripture.  How did I know he was adding or misquoting?  I looked at his scripture references.   And no, there’s no point to embedding his video here since there are countless people misquoting misusing scripture.  The purpose is not to bash a specific person, but instead, the hope of this article is to challenge us to see scripture completely for what it is and what it is not.

There is a real danger is saying something is in the Bible and it’s not.  Maybe someone seeking Christ, they may not know what this minister was saying was untrue.  That person may try to find those passages later in the Bible and get frustrated, thinking that minister a fraud.   And maybe he is a fraud.  We are to speak the truth in love, and nothing but the truth. Ephesians 4:15

So here are some sayings we’ve grown up thinking are in the Bible but are not.

Sayings listed here in the Blue Letter Bible

Moderation in all things.
Once saved, always saved.
Better to cast your seed….
Spare the rod, spoil the child.
To thine ownself be true. (attributed to Hamlet)
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
God helps those who help themselves.
Money is the root of all evil.
Cleanliness is next to godliness.
This too shall pass.
The eye is the window to the soul.
God works in mysterious ways.
The lion shall lay down with the lamb.
Pride comes before the fall.

We like these sayings because they help support a moral fabric that makes us content.  And there is nothing wrong is these sayings.  They all have positive messages and a lot of them can run parallel to Christendom. But they are not in the Bible.  And there’s nothing wrong with that either. They are just sayings, philosophies, positive quotes.  Every day you open up your social media, you see a lot of quotes writers feel are important. They make us feel good, and that’s good too.

Verse 18 and a Prostitute

The story of Joshua in the Book of Joshua is one of vital importance in understanding God’s redemption for the children of Israel who had refused to trust Yahweh to claim the promise land.  So for the past forty years, those who didn’t trust died off.  All but Joshua and Caleb. In Joshua chapter 1, Joshua is installed as the new leader.  So when I was sitting in church, the preacher was speaking on chapter 1.  He was talking about each verse in chapter 1, and when the sermon was over, I realized he left out verse 18,

18Whoever rebels against your word and does not obey it, whatever you may command them, will be put to death. Only be strong and courageous!”

After church, I asked the preacher why he didn’t cover verse 18.  It seemed he didn’t want to address the violence of Joshua in a sermon about hope and courage.

So this was a series by the same preacher with Joshua chapter 2, is about the spies sent by Joshua who ended up being protected by a woman that the bible describes as a prostitute.  So when speaking, the preacher explained that he wouldn’t use the word prostitute because he didn’t want to say it in front of kids who were in the sanctuary.

Both ‘scripture avoidances’ leave the scripture and stories incomplete.   Not to get too ahead of this blog post, but God gave us his word, his complete word.  And it is vital to understand and teach the bible, the whole bible.  While I don’t think the preacher is a ‘woke’ preacher, but if we talk about verse 18, and the people’s response, it’s important to understand Joshua’s installment as the new leader.  This reaction by the children of Israel is in sharp contrast to their parens and grandparent’s who died because of disobedience.

As for the word prostitute.  Do we not want our children to know the scripture.  Maybe you say the word from the pulpit and this sparks parents to open God’s word to teach their children at home.

 A Personal Revelation

So over the past 40 years of my church-going experience, there has been a shift in Christendom away from modern Church functions such as Sunday School, Scriptural teaching, to a seeker-friendly post-modern experiential church push.    The post-modern (some might say post-postmodern) church service experience is geared more towards addressing social issues which congregants care about and a move away from specific Biblical scriptural understanding.  Instead of personal scriptural reading, we depend on the church projection screen or printouts of the message points to learn what scripture means. If we don’t have complete scriptural context (or what the scripture is talking about as it was written) it can be a challenge to follow a message and decipher what is scripture and what is philosophy. Is the spoken message in the church meeting founded in Biblical Scripture?  In today’s post-postmodern churches, some may push a church service experience with visually appealing light displays and decor, songs that most of the congregants like, and environments that are comfortable and less disconcerting to the general public that may attend.

The caution in such environments is the risk of making an environment too relaxed, to seeker-friendly, to non-disconcerting is; that we risk avoiding the Un-convenient Biblical Truths that separates Believers from non-Believers. Jesus says we should be Salt and Light; He never talked about ‘sugar.’    However, there is a risk if today’s post-postmodern church talks about certain scriptures, themes, or truths found in God’s word. And the risk of talking about certain Biblical scripture is that someone will get offended and not come back to the church service. If we talk about complete scripture, will people leave the church service? In today’s sometimes described as a consumer-driven church culture, there is a risk that offended visitors won’t return if something makes them feel uncomfortable.  It’s just like eating out, not liking the food or decor, leaving a negative Google review and not going back.

So what are some un-convenient truths found in Scripture?  Here are just a few examples.

David and Goliath:  The Whole Story

Growing up in church, I learned great stories from the Bible.  And the image below is how I learned the story of David and Goliath.  This is the story of David, a sheep farmer, who defeated a really large enemy in Goliath, who was much larger and a professional soldier.  We’ve all heard the story of how David volunteered to face this giant of a man which just a sling and some stones.  He killed the giant by hitting him in the head with a stone.

David and Goliath

But when we read the whole scripture, we learn a little more about what the scene may have really looked like. The image below shows a young man taking a sword and chopping off Goliath’s head.  1 Samuel 17 we learn that David put Goliath’s weapon in his own tent and took Goliath’s head back to Jerusalem.  In our effort to concentrate on the spiritual aspect of the story of David, often times we will often gloss over the violent scene that was there.  Here we have someone, David a shepherd, who God says is a man after His own heart, take a sword, chop off a man’s head and carry it back to town.

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David was talking to King Saul after the battle, the Bible says David was still holding Goliath’s head. Imagine that.  It may change the cartoony image we’ve learned over the years.  The nice story of a boy who conquered the bully.

But David was much more than God’s hero for killing Goliath, he also committed adultery, killed his love rival rebelling against God and led armies that slaughtered entire nations of people. We have to look at all parts of David’s life as well in the context of the time period, what God was doing in David’s life and how it fits the full Bible narrative.  It’s in the Bible.

But sometimes in our modern flavoring of Christian stories, we may not like to talk about the violence that is in the Bible.  I’ve never heard any minister talk about the story of David that includes David still holding the head of Goliath. Carmen the singer did though.   But that is what’s in the Bible.  But I have heard non-believers talk about the violence in the Old Testament as a way to condemn Christendom.    So how do we explain the Old Testament and what is often violence in the name of and against the name of God-Yahweh?  Our explanation has to be explained in the entire story of the Bible, not just this chapter, this story, or this character.  But other than Bible scholars, I haven’t heard much Apologetics, or defense, of the historical violence in the Old Testament from lay believers.  But the Old Testament and the violence within it, is part of the Bible, even though it may be uncomfortable to talk about.  We tend to avoid the subject, instead focusing our diatribe on comfortable ideas like the Love of Jesus.  But we have to understand even the Love of Jesus within the context of the whole Bible.  We can’t pick and choose, otherwise, the complete narrative doesn’t make any sense.

Sin

Romans 3:23 ‘All have sinned and fall short of God’s glory, Common English Bible’ (CEB) If just start with Roman 3:23, then we know that everyone has sinned and what, fallen short of God’s glory.  Meaning none of us have are different from others in the respect that each is not achieved God’s glory.

In John 8, we see a story of Jesus intervening in the stoning of a woman for adultery.  What we see is Jesus addressing sin in her life, not in the way people around her wanted to condemn her for, but with compassion.  And often as Christians, we love that story.  We lean into the picture of compassion that Jesus had.  He stepped in the middle of an angry mob and a woman,  protecting someone in need.  And yep, that’s all true.  But we can’t avoid Jesus talking about Sin.  Jesus asked the crowd, of people wanting to stone her, about their sin.  He then told the woman to leave sin behind in her life.

So what is Sin in the Bible?

There are many instances of ‘sin’ in the Bible.  But if we just look at the story of Adam and Eve, we see a cause and effect relationship between sin and man.  In Genesis 3, we see the story of Adam and Eve’s rebellion against God’s directive that they not eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil.  Adam and Eve disobeyed God and were put out of the Garden of Eden.  Sin is just a rebellion against God. Subsequently, Repentance or to Repent is to turn away from evil, to return to God.

So why in our post-postmodern churches, do we not talk about sin?  For one, progressiveness or the progressive movement in culture seeks to deconstruct religion that has any type of standard.  Ask anyone you know about sin and you may get some stutters, rambling response that ends in ‘Well, I don’t judge people.’  What that person is saying is they don’t believe in sin.   If you talk about rebellion against God, then you have to talk about the nature of God and His design for humanity.  And when you do that, you talk about a standard for living.  And that’s something the current progressive nature and post-postmodern churches don’t like to talk about.  Because if they do,  the Bible promises we/they will be convicted of our sin.

John 16:7-11 (NAS) 7 “But I tell you the truth, it is to your advantage that I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper shall not come to you; but if I go, I will send Him to you. 8 “And He, when He comes, will convict the world concerning sin, and righteousness, and judgment; 9 concerning sin, because they do not believe in Me; 10 and concerning righteousness, because I go to the Father, and you no longer behold Me; 11 and concerning judgment, because the ruler of this world has been judged.

Matthew 18:1 “At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who is greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” 2He called a little child and set him before them, 3and said, “I assure you and most solemnly say to you, unless you repent [that is, change your inner self—your old way of thinking, live changed lives] and become like children[trusting, humble, and forgiving], you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.4Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.5Whoever receives andwelcomes one child like this in My name receives Me;6but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble and sin [by leading him away from My teaching], it would be better for him to have a heavy millstone [as large as one turned by a donkey] hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.”

How are we supposed to repent if we don’t talk about what we need to repent from?

Summary: If sin is talked about in church, there is a risk that some folk will go elsewhere because God’s Spirit and man’s sinful behavior are not compatible. It’s not fun to talk about sin.  It may be more fun to talk about hope, encouraging others, helping others, and so on.

Divorce

Mark 10 11 He said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her;12 and if a wife divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”

‘Woah right there fella, I’m going to go to a church that talks about divorce.”  “I’m not interested in someone pointing out the pain in my life.”   What did Jesus say?

At the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.[a] Because of this, a man should leave his father and mother and be joined together with his wife, and the two will be one flesh.[b] So they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore, humans must not pull apart what God has put together.”

Don’t yell at me, I didn’t write it.  But when is the last time someone you know quoted Jesus on divorce?  There are many resources in the church today to help people recover from divorce.  But why did Jesus say what he said? Couldn’t he instead say something like, “You can divorce if it really isn’t working out if you’re unhappy if your spouse isn’t living up to your expectations?”  But no, He said a man should not tear apart what God joined together.

The un-convenient part of this is it’s very uncomfortable for the church to discuss divorce because divorce is so destructive.   There are no winners in a divorce.  Over my career, I’ve never seen anyone come out with a trophy in divorce. Sure someone may get both cars, the house, the kids, but the emotional disappointment and destruction are real.  And when kids have to divorce their one or both parents, it’s an emotional toll that can carry into adulthood.

So this is why Jesus gives us the direction about divorce.  So should the church ignore the words of Jesus?  Of course not.  It’s important to start with Jesus’ words and treat divorce with compassion, forgiveness, and healing in the church.  But the start has to be with the truth of what Jesus said.  If not, then we are no better than Dr. Phil or Oprah circa 1980.

Marriage

Speaking of Marriage. The Bible, God’s written message to us is not an encyclopedia, but a Guide Book.  So the description of marriage is simple for us. God doesn’t give us the full picture of how he created man, there’s no Youtube of the event. But what we do have is a definitive description.

Genesis 1:

26Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals, a and over all the creatures that move along the ground.”

27So God created mankind in his own image,

in the image of God he created them;

male and female he created them.

28God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”

Genesis 5:1 When God created mankind, he made them in the likeness of God. 2He created them male and female and blessed them. And he named them “Mankind” a when they were created.

And yes, in the post-postmodern church, it is seen as old-fashion and even ‘hateful’ to define marriage in the way God did in Genesis.   Churches have either discarded the Old-Testament or said the definition in Genesis is something God has ‘progressed’ from.

Even when Jesus says in Mark 10:7 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,’ many progressive, post-post modern churches discard that as well, instead adopting the idea that God will love any two people who love each other because God is love.  This philosophy has no basis in scripture.

So why not discuss it in church?  The movement away from Biblical marriage is strong in the current culture. Entire denominations have split over this issue.  This is by far one of the biggest Un-convenient truths in the Bible.  There is a big risk in discussing what the Bible says about marriage.  The issue will split churches, split families, split friendships.  It is very divisive, so many church folk avoid the issue because the lines in culture have been drawn and you’re either on that side or this side.

Hell

Revelation 21:8 But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars—they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.”

Talk about an uncomfortable subject.  Wow, what does that mean?

There are other scriptures about Hell; Matthew 25:46, Psalm 9:17, 2 Thessalonians 1:9, Matthew 13:50, Acts 2:27, Mark 9:43, Jude 1:7, Proverbs 15:24, Proverbs 23:14, Matthew 25:41, Revelation 19:20, Proverbs 15:11, Matthew 16:19, 2 Peter 2:4, Revelation 20:13-14, Matthew 10:28, Ezekiel 18:20,

No one likes to talk about Hell, but the Bible does mention the subject.  Christendom in large part has historically considered Hell a place of torment for those who do not repent.  Today, there are entire denominations that have discarded the idea of Hell along with the idea of Sin as well. There is a movement to consider such subjects as Hell as a time in the past and that today, God wouldn’t send anyone to Hell because God is loving and Love wins in the end.  There is no scriptural basis to explain away Hell.  All we have to go on is what the Bible, including Jesus, tells us in the Bible. God did not give us a blueprint for His creation, but a book of hope and warning, the Bible.  The goal is to approach Hell as scripture describes it in the full narrative of repentance and Sin and not include philosophies or descriptions of Hell that are not described in the Bible.  It’s very hard to think about people going to a place called Hell.  How could God be so cruel some would say.  But we don’t know the nature of God, all we know is what He tells us in the Bible and to our spirit in prayer. Hell is a subject that has to be discussed in church meetings, in groups and in our own thought and prayer lives.

Holy Spirit

In Luke 24:45-49 Jesus talks describes sending the Holy Spirit to comfort us following His death.   In Matthew 12:31-33, Jesus talks about sin against the Holy Spirit.  In John 3:6-8 Jesus talks about being transformed by the Spirit, being reborn.  Which is where the phrase in Christendom ‘born again’ comes from.

So why can it be so un-convenient to talk about God’s Holy Spirit in church? For one, we humans like facts.  We want to to be able to explain from start to finish.  But God doesn’t give us a blueprint for His Spirit.  Jesus and other narrators of God’s scripture who describe God’s Spirit, describe the behavior of God’s Spirit and the effect it has on man’s spirit, but that’s about it.   So to talk about God’s Spirit, we are left with scripture and that’s it.

John 16:8 New International Version (NIV)

8 When he comes, he will prove the world to be in the wrong about sin and righteousness and judgment:

Now, wait just a minute! Sin? I can’t talk about God’s Holy Spirit in this way because then I’m confronted with Sin, and Sin is getting in my business. But When Jesus talks about God’s Holy Spirit, it is conjunction with telling folk about their sin and what is wrong with the world. It’s pretty straight-forward.

So sometimes we church folk avoid talking about God’s Spirit because this particular scripture has to be discussed. And doing that gets into our business, our own Sin. And that’s uncomfortable.

Heavenheaven

Like Hell, what we know of Heaven comes from Biblical Scripture.  Heaven is great to talk about!  Everyone loves the thought of going to Heaven.

In John 14: 2-4, Jesus talks about going back to prepare a place for us that has ‘many rooms.’  And trust me, I grew up designing my room in Heaven. Back then, I thought of rubies, gold, and a set of french doors to a patio beside some palm trees.  Today, I’d probably settle for a comfy bed that doesn’t give me pain when I sleep.

What else does scripture say about Heaven?

In Matthew 22:29 When asked about married people dying and being resurrected, Jesus replied, “You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God. 30 “For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.

That scripture pretty much torpedoes a lot of what we may think Heaven is like.  We like to instead think of Heaven as an extension of this earthly life, only perfect without any problems, disease, taxes and so on.  But in Revelation 21 John’s vision is of a new Heaven and Earth, the first heaven and earth pass away.

So how do we approach Heaven if it’s not the Roman Eutopia with fig leaves and grapes some folk think it is.  We approach Heaven in the context of the complete Biblical scripture.  We understand that God doesn’t give us His complete printout of what is to come.

But what we can’t do is talk about what is not in Scripture.  But how do we know what someone says about Heaven is true or not.  We’ve all heard stories of people who have died, gone to heaven and come back to share what they saw.  My personal opinion is we take those stories and judge them in concert with Biblical Scripture.  If the two don’t flow, then we should be skeptical.  If someone says they died, went to heaven and saw that Jesus wasn’t there, instead, it was another god present that allowed for people to continue their sin from this life into heaven; there is no scriptural foundation for that account and should be considered as discarded and untrustworthy if not heresy. But how do we know?  We read Biblica scripture.

Of Heaven, we know what Biblical scripture tells us and that’s it.  It is a place for those who believe and follow Jesus’s God’s Son.  John 3:16-17

In Luke 23:39-43 Jesus is described as being on the cross being crucified. One of the two other men being crucified along with Jesus curses.  And the other man asks Jesus to remember him.  Jesus tells that man, “Truly I say to you, today you shall be with Me in Paradise.’

There is a religious philosophy today that everyone will go to Heaven, that in the end Love wins, and no one goes to Hell.’

My personal challenge to that philosophy is found in Luke 23.  If Love wins and everyone goes to Heaven, why does Jesus only make this ‘Paradise’ promise to one of the men, and not the other?’  Good question.

 

The Danger of not discussing the full Bible, even those sections or subjects that make us very uncomfortable.

The danger in not teaching the complete Bible in church meetings or in our own personal study is we tend to focus on whimsical quotes, philosophical themes, and the church meeting culture as a source. How often do we see religious quotes without and scripture reference?   The limitation of spiritual philosophy is most of the time we are left wondering where the harmony in scripture is found.

1 John 4:1 ‘Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see wheter they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the word.’

From 1 John 4:1, we are warned that not everyone’s message is from God; and a messenger that picks only certain scripture to talk about and discards other scripture lands in that category.  Because the truth of the Bible is found in its complete scriptural narrative, not bits and pieces.

Another danger of equating being a Christian to church instead of a personal transformation and relations with Jesus is,  a non-believer can easily say, “I don’t like church”, or “the church is full of hypocrites” as a way to dismiss believing in God.  The expression of the church meeting has to be sourced from scripture because while people are imperfect, fail, and don’t have the answers within themselves. Scripture gives us our ultimate Hope in God. Simply put, as church folk, we are pointing to God through scripture, not pointing to ourselves as hope for others.  So when someone says, ‘the church is full of hypocrites,’ we can respond as believers, ‘it sure is and we are all sinners according to the Bible but Jesus gives us hope and let me share with you why.’ A church may be full of good people, we know from Jesus that none of us are good in God’s sight. We have all fallen short.  Spiritual equality if you will.

These are just some Biblical Truths that some church folk have discarded or put in the closet.   Why? They are divisive.  No one likes to talk about painful or controversial subjects.  I sure don’t.    In many post-post modern seeker-friendly churches, a lot of effort goes into getting people through the doors.  Capital investment in a comfy cultural feel, freebies, marketing campaigns and so on.  The last thing needed is something that will erase or risk the gains in church attendance.  So there is a tendency to put on a good attractive appearance.  Putting our best foot forward to attract and keep people coming.  The risk to that is, the world or non-believers never will see what God sees, a group of broken sinners who need God’s grace like everyone else.

So, why should we talk about uncomfortable truths from the Bible?  Why?  Because it’s the whole Truth.   Oftentimes there’s an effort to pick and choose scripture to prove a point, or to tell a story.  Like David and Goliath and the uncomfortable truth that he carried the head of Goliath back to his camp and was holding the head when we spoke to King Saul.  I personally think that’s awesome, it paints a picture of a real post-battle scene.  It also gives me a less than timid picture of David at that point in his life.  That’s pretty raw, gross per se, but it’s the truth.  It is how the story is told in the Bible. What about divorce?  With the American divorce rate at 50%, half of the people in any given church service may be offended by what Jesus said in Mark 10.  The subject is very relevant.  Divorce is a raw experience that God never intended.  So talking about it can be hurtful for those who have gone through it. But if we approach the scripture with compassion and healing, we can help those find understanding and a path forward.  But we can’t avoid it.

The point or goal for us is to understand there is a complete Bible, a complete Word of God that was given to us to read. We are not to depend on someone reading it to us once a week as our only source of understanding.  We have to know the difference between human philosophy, whimsical spiritual quotes and ‘friendly advice’ and what the Bible says about our issues.   So how do you or I know what’s being said every time we go to a church meeting is actually what the Bible says or means.  We read the Bible and pray.   And if what is being said to us is Truth,  it will be in harmony to what God is saying to our spirit.  But if we hear scripture that is incomplete or doesn’t harmonize with our understanding of what that scripture says, then we should understand why.   One of the activities I like to do is look around a scripture that is read in a church service.  If someone quotes 1 Timothy 2, then it’s important to understand the context of that scripture and what the whole scripture segment is talking about.  There are plenty of authoritative commentaries that can be used in conjunction with reading the Bible. The challenge is to weed out the blasphemy, incomplete scripture reading and cherry picking scriptures out of context.  That requires reading and studying and prayer.

The Bible was never meant to be read and interpreted differently based on time, culture, or Christian-flavor.  The Bible says what it says, and it’s important to understand the time period, culture, and most importantly is the communication with God on what He means.

Read and ask questions, discuss scripture.   Don’t accept what one person says, read it for yourself. What you hear at church may be entirely sound with the entire Bible scripture, but it may not.  It is up to us to study, decipher and challenge if need be. Because it won’t be our pastor that stands before God to give account for us, it will, in fact, be us.

A Guide Book and not an Encyclopedia.

Biblical truths are un-convenient for us.  And I certainly don’t like anyone getting in my business.  I’d rather live according to my own thoughts, vision for my life.  After all, I have a brain, right?  I can pick out scripture just like anyone else and make it sound right according to my behavior. I can avoid scriptures that make me feel uncomfortable.  I love philosophy.  But to what end?  I end up living a lie that I’ve told myself if I don’t live in alliance with the complete Biblical scripture.  If we read the complete Bible, we learn we have hope, but only if we don’t rebel and turn away from God.   If we do, we have to repent because there is God’s design for us, and anything else is a sin. God does not contradict himself. His Biblical scripture cannot have two diametric meanings.

God gave us his written word to be a guide for us as we pray and seek to follow Him.  The Bible is a story of hope, not an exhaustive explanation of God’s motives, nature, or methods.  We hope because Jesus died for us.  We know this because John 3:16-17 says so.  We follow by faith, not because God gave us a blueprint for his grand design that we understand start to finish.

The subjects discussed here, Sin, Heaven, Marriage, etc are all found in the Bible.  Are the subjects we hear in a church meeting, online or spoken word, corporate worship found in the Bible?  The songs we sing in a church meeting may have sound Scriptural foundation, or they may not.  There’s one way to know if what we hear or read is from the Bible, we read and pray.

 

Next Steps

God doesn’t call us to live a comfortable life.  Jesus instead says there is a cross to bear, and that’s not comfortable for anyone. And that will make us spiritually squirmy for sure.  So my encouragement is for all of us to understand the full Biblical narrative, even the parts that are ‘un-convenient’ for us.

Does your church cover Christian subjects like these?  If so, that’s awesome.  But God still requires us to read His Word. One of the more challenging Books of the Bible for me to read is Numbers.  But I read it through because the stories are important to understand the Children of Isreal.   So the Book of Numbers is on my way in understanding even the book of Matthew.

On the other hand,  if we don’t hear the complete narrative of Biblical subjects covered in our church meetings, we should ask why.  It’s very popular to cover social issues, or what I like to call Oprah subjects.  The risk is to cover the surface of humanity and not delve into what can really change us; repentance and following Jesus.


 

About the Author: Steven Davis is the son of a minister; Bible school dropout, former social worker, and musician.

References:

APA.ORG

Charles Swindoll

Bible Study Guide

Blue Letter Bible

CBN

The Gospel Coalition

 

An Open Letter to Pastors, Music Pastors and Churches: Let Your Light Shine, Ok, Maybe Not that Light

An Open Letter to Pastors, Music Pastors, and Churches: Let Your Light Shine, Ok, Maybe Not that Light

The following is an article asking the question: “Is our church environment inviting to all?” If not, then why not?  If not, then should it be?

Worship lights

Matthew 11:28 “Come to Me, all [a]who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. — Jesus

Putting my thoughts together, I immediately realized that the risk of sounding like an ‘Old Fogey’ is real.  But my goal here is to present my personal experience, and passion for the lost and hurting and not a condemnation of evangelistic techniques.  After all, the Great Commission is for everyone. And it is always easy to be critical, it’s much more difficult to be vulnerable to criticism.

Personal History: The Rumbling in the Pew

My favorites memories of attending church meetings are from my early years. We had the traditional Christmas plays, Easter services, Sunday School, and Children’s Church, and Revivals.  The children’s church was set up like a mini sanctuary with pews, a stage, and a podium.  It was where I learned beloved songs like “Jesus Loves Me, ‘Father Abraham’ and so on.  Our church was a type of family environment that after most weddings in the church, the church folk would be invited to the reception in the upstairs. I’d always make extra trips to the peanuts and those little square mints.  My first friends were at this church.  It was also the environment where I learned my first sign language because we had a member teach us. It was where I had my first ‘girlfriend’, at the age of nine even.

I grew up from a baby knowing only one Pastor, Brother Garner. And being the kind of kid that couldn’t always make it through the whole service, I would sometimes fall asleep on the wooden pew.  And no, we didn’t have cushions, but I fell asleep just the same.

And one of the memories I have is the voice rumbling in the pew.

The rumbling I felt and heard was Pastor Garner’s voice. I still remember how the pew would vibrate from the sound of his voice. I consider him my Pastor for all time since he had so much compassion for others, the messages were truth and were in concert with powerful worship.

The worship we had was led by a husband and wife.  We had a band with drums, horns, and of course a choir.  God’s Spirit would often move in the service and even today, I’m reminded of how it shaped my first understanding of what a church is all about.

From age 10, I played drums in church.  I still remember playing my single Ludwig snare drum in church.  When my dad bought a Ludwig Blue Sparkle drumset for me to play in church. I was so happy.  I wish I still had it. So fast forward several decades, I’m the son of a Pastor for over 35 years.  I spent years playing drums in church, a couple of gospel groups. We traveled to many churches in the ’80s and ’90s.   I experienced the powerful movement of God throughout those years while attending Camp Meeting, Youth Camp, and Home Coming services at so many churches.  When God moved, there was music, there was preaching or teaching, and a call for people to change through repentance and seeking the Holy Spirit.

As a worship musician, I’ve always understood the power of worship in church.  Playing in church worship was always one way for me to worship myself.  I tell people all the time, when they ask me to play in church, that I’m not a technical drummer.  (Truth being, I didn’t pay enough attention to my rudiments and fundamentals in band, which is one of my bigger regrets.) I just like to play and worship.’ I do everything possible to not become a hindrance or focus for anyone worshiping.  I’d rather play behind a curtain than have someone watch me play during worship.

Warning: Here Comes Somewhat of a Tangent, a Proverbial Squirrel even.

I was a teenager when churches came out against “Christian Rock.”  I remember being condemned for my choice of music which included Christian Rock Bands; Bride, Stryper, Leviticus, Guardian to name a few.  There was this really odd response from many in the church that sought to refute and refuse music that looked different with these Gospel messengers that wore spandex and even wigs, and music that was very loud and mostly ostracized from mainstream churches.   So typically that music was limited to concert venues, specific events that you bought tickets for. There was a concerted effort to segregate Christian Rock music from the established American church.   But that’s another story altogether. After all, it was called “The Devil’s Music.”  Geoff Moore even addresses it in his song, “Why Should the Devil Have all the Good Music.”

During this time, I don’t think myself or anyone who liked Christian Rock music wanted that music in church, we just knew Christian Rock music appealed to a certain type of Christian and we wanted to listen to it because we knew it spoke to us.  I still love hymns more than anything, but as a drummer, I could appreciate Christian Rock as long as the message was there.  Every album I bought, I always opened up the cover and read the words.  After all, the message is the most important factor when listening to someone else speak to your soul.

So from my view, the impact today has been just the opposite.  When churches ran youth out of their churches saying, – ‘if you’re going to listen to that music, we don’t want you here,’ the impact today is seen in the loss of that generation in the church today.  I was even told I would never amount to anything if I kept going like I was in my teen years. And that pastor was right.  Unfortunately, that’s the statement that sticks in my head.

End Tangent and the Proverbial Squirrel.


Marketing Vs. Ministry

Going back to what Jesus said about ‘Come to me all who are weary’, the Seeker Church Movement has been well documented over the years.  It was/is a movement that sought to create a culturally relevant and comfortable church meeting experience that was inviting without scaring people off.  But inviting to whom?

 

There has definitely been a move over the years to implement the tools of the corporate world into marketing church plants.  Today, we have in-house free or pay-for coffee shops, free-gifts and give-a-ways, meals after church, and you can even have a beer after church. And the decor resembles your local coffee shop or brewpub.  These are all efforts to make the church experience more inviting to those who may find attending a church frightening or a turnoff.  There’s an entire science behind church planting with strategies on how you can attract the right people to your church. But at what cost?

John MacArthur with Grace Community Church puts it this way; “And so, the church in those last ten or fifteen years has basically been in many ways co-opted or commandeered by the entrepreneurs.  And the guys who can really pull it off, the guys who are the clever guys, the glib guys, the smooth communicators, the guys who are really savvy to the marketing strategy, the guys who have a lot of money at their feet who can access a lot of money and pull this off are becoming the success models for the church.  And now they’re getting all the kudos, they’re selling books by the millions, they’re creating massive websites and sucking up all kinds of other pastors and churches into the vortex of these entrepreneurial kind of culturally driven quasi churches.  It isn’t that everything they say is wrong.  It isn’t that everything they do is wrong.  It is that the church is being run by market savvy entrepreneurs.  That in itself has no connection to Scripture.”

John MacArthur’s statement is pretty strong.  But it does beg the question; are we marketing first and messaging second?  I once sat in a two and half hour church planning meeting to go over what type of free giveaways were going to be handed out to guests throughout the year.   Relaying the vision and purpose for the same meeting was around three minutes or so.

Obviously, there needs to be an organized effort to make sure a church plant, meeting, and events are not chaos.  So having a proper method in ‘running’ a church organization is important.   The last thing someone experiencing a church meeting about Jesus needs to see is, a messy church environment such as staff not knowing what they are doing.

But when does culture comfort become a problem?

I once attended a church that handed out a survey asking the congregation what they wanted to hear from the pastor throughout the year.  That’s a good way to gauge the needs of a congregation, but I really didn’t see any choices resembling the cannons of Christianity such as Hell, Heaven, Sin, and/or Holy Spirit.  A lot of the list was cultural surface emotional issues.  In the grand scheme of church leadership, it’s probably a good tool to statistically gauge needs in the church.  But it does lead me to imagine Moses going up on Mount Sanai and giving God a list of talking points from the Children of Israel.

Here’s a question. What is the right method to reach people?  Is it Message or Marketing? Is our goal to use a physical church environment to attract people with methods that are culturally comfortable and then ‘sucker punch’ them with a message about Jesus? Like Christian rock concerts that attract rockers with music and surprise them with a Jesus message at the end.  Do we adopt methods from the Timeshare people who give us a 99.95 three day weekend at a resort only after trying to lock us into a condo following an exhausting 2.5-hour meeting?  Is Jesus the message and such a draw in our lives that people want to come and see what’s going on at the Sunday meeting?  Is the environment used in the physical church meeting inviting to everyone? Do we look forward to the church environment or the transforming message of Jesus?  When our lives break down on Tuesday, do we have to wait till Sunday to feel God’s Spirit?  Did the Apostle Paul in prison need lights, smoke, and skinny jeans for God’s power to descend and rock the walls?  Do we mentally associate God with the church environment on Sunday? When people ask us about our faith, do we talk about the Sunday service, or do we share our story and how Jesus has transformed our lives?  Could the thousands of dollars spent on decor be better spent reaching out to someone who is not our kind of church people? Do people come and go from church services without being noticed because they don’t fit the churches environment?  Does the ‘Samaritan Woman’ leave our church meetings because she doesn’t fit into the super savvy culture?

The Samaritan woman is the perfect example of the message based on the person of Jesus spawning marketing when in John 4:39 Many of the Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman’s testimony, “He told me everything I ever did.” 40So when the Samaritans came to him, they urged him to stay with them, and he stayed two days. 41And because of his words many more became believers.” His words.

Jesus first broke cultural norms when he spoke to the Samaritan woman which was in itself a ‘no no’ in that day.  I suppose Jesus could have dressed like a Samaritan and fit in better, but he met the Samaritan woman where she was and that day, she became part of the church.  He didn’t try to conform her to His ‘culture’ instead He pointed to the purpose of God the father. Despite her difference.

Matthew 11:28 “Come to Me, all [a]who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”  Jesus said he came for those in need and not the well.  So as a church, what should be our meeting environment look like when anyone walks through the door?  Should it be one where everyone feels welcomed, comforted, loved?  Jesus gives us the best example.  His ministry was open and inviting to all, He was irrespective of age, gender, and targeted groups.  He stood on a hill and proclaimed the truth to anyone who would listen.  Not everyone accepted Jesus either.  But He was on His Father’s mission and Jesus didn’t conform to the world’s culture just to get an audience.

Would Jesus wear Louis Vuitton glasses and distressed GAP jeans if He started a church in America today?  We only need to look at His life for an answer.   Jesus’ purpose was to have His life point to God the Father. So I suspect his clothing as it were, would point people past Himself to God the father and not himself.

Is the ‘Modern Concert Church’ approach a filter for including some folks and excluding others?

Question:  Are the Lights, Skinny Jeans, Smoke, Fog, a crutch for worship?  Do they create an environment that is faux emotionalism first, and hopefully worship second? What if the poor, non-hip-savvy single mother walks in? Where does she fit in with here second-hand clothing?

The Poison concert I went to in 1989 was great.  I still remember the drum solo that lifted Ricky Rockett up in the air as he played upside down, laser lights, the smoke, everywhere.  Smoke which wasn’t just band generated. There was plenty of secondary drug smoke in the place which no doubt added to the concert experience.

Matthew 28: 16 But the eleven disciples proceeded to Galilee, to the mountain which Jesus had designated. 17 When they saw Him, they worshiped Him; but some were doubtful.18 And Jesus came up and spoke to them, saying, “All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth. 19 [e]Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit,20 teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you [f]always, even to the end of the age.”

Question: Does the church meeting experience or environment welcome everyone? Are we looking for anyone as a disciple, or just those that fit the church meeting culture?


The following is the catalyst for this writing.

A year ago, I visited a friend’s church, on the stage was a huge wall of lightbulbs in a square formation that changed in color.  The wall of lights (similar to a lightbright) took up a large part of the stage behind the band.  A few minutes after the service began, my head began to hurt and I ended up sitting down with my head in my hands.  Following the service, I went to the front church entrance where there was daylight coming through the windows to get relief for my head.  A church member asked me how I enjoyed the service.  My head was hurting so much, and without really thinking my response through, I responded, “my head was hurting from the lights on the stage.”  Her response was that sometimes people have to put in earplugs because of the music volume in the service and implied that the service isn’t for everyone. That stuck in my head. Your church service isn’t for everyone? (insert old fogey hints)

The church we were going to for a while decided to put a bank of ‘lightbright’ bulbs left and right to the middle projection screen used for worship.  The challenge looking at the stage was that the collective lumens from the left and right walls of ‘lightbright’ bulbs were brighter than the reflective lumens coming off the projection screen.  Lumens are the measurement of light.  The walls of light were actually brighter than the projection screen.  While it looked artistic, technically speaking, it was a poor design. So my eyes focused on the ‘lightbrights’ and competed with the projection screen.

While looking for a church to land and invest in, we visited three ‘contemporary’ churches in our area.  Each had somewhat of the same contemporary cultural comfort type feel. Dark or dimming light designs where the lights would go up or down depending on what was going on.  And each had a variety of LED lights shining in the darkness pointing at the audience. There were also typical flavors such as contemporary clothing, music was current top 40 you’d hear on KLove and so on.  While there were some differences, the approach to worship was pretty much the same, dark concert feel with various lighting themes.

During each church visit, we encountered unbalanced LED lights specifically that were pointed at the congregation, or back at the audience.  This is the same effect of pointing an LED flashlight at someone in the dark.  With each visit, my headaches returned.  One church turned the ambient lights up which balanced out the LED’s and this was better, but then they turned the ambient lights back down after the offering.  For one service, I spent half the service with my eyes closed.

Frustrated and looking for answers to my dilemma, I started researching. I knew the common denominator was the audience-directed LEDs in the dark.   To my surprise, I learned I have an issue similar to ‘photophobia.’  And just like you reading this, I did not know it was a thing.   But it is real and affects many people.  Webmd defines it as the following: Photophobia literally means “fear of light.” If you have photophobia, you’re not actually afraid of light, but you are very sensitive to it. The sun or bright indoor light can be uncomfortable, even painful.

For me, my issue is worse with unbalanced-flashlight in the dark type displays of LED lighting pointed at me.

Arnold J. Wilkins Professor of Psychology, University of Essex puts it this way.” Most lighting is electric and powered by an alternating current supply, which makes the bulbs continually dim and then brightens again at a very fast rate. Unlike filament lamps and to a lesser extent fluorescent lamps, LEDs don’t just dim but effectively turn on and off completely (unless the current is maintained in some way).”  So the refresh or constant flash of light from an LED is harsher on vision because the light completely goes out and back on, and off and on.

It was very frustrating trying to visit a church when you have to keep your eyes closed for most of the time.  We found a great church that had a nice children’s program, good messages but unfortunately, I couldn’t go there because of the LED’s pointed back at me in the dark.  And I hesitated to even bring it up to the churches I visited.  But my frustration was real and I wanted to find a church that spoke the truth and could invest in.

So despite my reservations, I mentioned it to one church leader and said, ‘we were grateful for the mission of their church but there are a couple of LED lights that cause significant discomfort during the service.’ (In the back of my mind was my experience as a preacher’s kid recalling church fights over carpet color, so I was definitely bracing myself for the response.)  I know full well how church folk get attached to things in the church.  Back in the day, we called the ‘sacred cows’ and entire churches have split over something as simple as decor.  Needless to say, the response I received was disheartening.  I immediately related myself to that one lost sheep.  But this time in the story, it was ok to have that sheep not be part of the church.  Personally, if something as insignificant as a decoration caused harm to someone visiting my church, I would put it on eBay the next day. (But enough self-loathing, that is not the purpose of this article)

If you read the manual on LED lights such as those used by DJ’s and churches, you’ll often see the warning, “Avoid direct eye exposure to the light source while it is one.” or “Avoid direct eye contact to the light when in operation”.

If you don’t see the warning, the manufacturer isn’t being responsible regarding the risk of direct LED exposure to people’s eyesight. So why point them at people in the church?  Not sure other than it’s popular and hits the dopamine in the right place.

LED lighting industry-wide is typically used to UP light a wall or other object like a ceiling. Technically speaking, pointing them at a crowd diminishes their effectiveness since the idea is to shine the LED light onto an object and change the color of an object.

But the risks to people’s vision is real and should be considered as a warning when using LEDs in this way.

These visits were the catalyst for this Open Letter.

So I began to question my beliefs about church meetings.  Is our goal for the physical church visit to be inviting to all?  Does our church environment filter out some folk and include others?  Is that Biblical?  Do we as a church take our lead from corporate America and target certain groups for inclusion and others for exclusion? Do we need to dress fly like G.Q. Magazine.  Does a church meeting need to be culturally comfortable? Is our message of Jesus what attracts people to a gathering, or is it multicolored smoke? Do we take from Paul that worship in jail can ‘attract’ someone to salvation or do we need wood textures on our church building walls?

These are good questions.

 

About the Author:  Steven Davis is a preacher’s kid for over thirty years, Bible school drop out, musician and media producer with over a decade of video, photography and lighting experience.

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Sources and further reading

John MacArthur.

Headaches Org

Arnold J. Wilkins Professor of Psychology, University of Essex

PHOTOPHOBIA